Success Is Self-Defined

Tristan Isham
1 Mar 2025, 8:19 pm · edited

Today I’m traveling to Lisbon, Portugal, for a vacation with my fiancé and her brother. The travel has been going great so far. Usually, traveling can be a bit stressful or chaotic, but today has been as smooth as butter.

I haven’t posted three times this week, but I have written three different posts. This one, my last one about the neatness of reflection in stack-based dynamic languages and PHP, and another about Laravel deleted after a day. It wasn’t work I was proud of.

I’m considering this week a success. By writing more, I’m stretching my writing muscles and building a habit. Once I have enough momentum, I can dive back into the bigger posts I’m excited to write.

Success is self-defined. If you’re creative, the purest form of success is enjoying creating for yourself and not needing to please others or make money. Not to say doing that isn’t nice, but to truly only need to create because you want to is a mindset freer than the wind. I’ve loved writing here these past two weeks because I’m no longer writing for other people. I’m writing for myself, and in these past two weeks, I’ve written more than I have in the past two years. If that isn’t success, I don’t know the definition.

I’ll be writing over this trip about our travels and my experiences. I’m excited to attempt some travel writing. It’s been a few years since I last reflected on a journey.

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A Domain is A Home

Tristan Isham
22 Feb 2025, 10:44 pm · edited

I first purchased tristanisham.com nearly ten years ago. In 2016, I was in highschool. A member of the marching band and tech club, the domain was a vehicle for a SquareSpace site self-promoting my limited work making videos for our high school media class. I’ve always been a bit self-promotional. I’ve never sold anything I can’t do, but even I’ll admit I embellished my experience then.

I’ve loved the web for as long as I remember. The first program I wrote was a BAT game inspired by the copy of Zork included with the original Call of Duty: Black Ops on the Xbox 360. From there, I quickly hopped over to websites, creating my first blog nextgamewins.com where I wrote about gaming through the GoDaddy WYSIWYG editor. Before that, back in middle school I had a blog on Blogger called Life Changing Cheese. Unfortunately, I changed the domain to one of those free .co.vu TLDs and now I can no longer access the original site, but my point stands. Since I was a little kid, I’ve always loved creating on the internet.
What people born outside of the late 90’s fail to understand is that we were the only generation to grow up at the right time for the internet. We have a natural proclivity towards it, but had enough time to mature without it. We were the first generation to grow up with smartphones, while still being able to appreciate life without them. I remember where I was when the App Store launched. I saw the rise of smartphones and social media. I was there when tests were on paper and when they transitioned to laptops. I lived through the greatest transformation of society since the mass adoption of electricity with feet in both worlds. No other generation can appreciate that. They were either too early, growing up in the now defunct age of the desktop, or too late, never to know the peace and reward of having to think for yourself on every matter. In that way, I think I am uniquely situated to comment on what it means to own your own name. With this website, I hope to leave a permanent record for anyone to observe, interact with, and experience beyond the control of anyone else. I would like to own my digital identity without falling prey to the manipulative misincentivised platforms that run our lives.

I would like you to make your own website. You should purchase a cheap domain, and find a service that works for you. Hosting your own site is easy too. If you can learn HTML, CSS, and JavaScript, you can find a service like Netlify that’ll host your site for free. Just create something. Draw something; write something; film something; do something. You won’t regret it.

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AI Won't Replace Writing

Tristan Isham
26 Nov 2024, 6:12 pm · edited

In his most recent essay, Paul Graham, founder of Y-Combinator, misses the forest for the trees in his prediction that writing as a skill will be functionally extinct because of AI. To be specific, Graham thinks that many people won’t be able to write because AI has dissipated almost all pressure to write. And because the gap between being a good writer and not being able to write has disappeared.

I want to presuppose that when he says writing, Graham means communicating effectively and asynchronously through text. Not actually writing by typing keys or scratching pens. I don’t think that skill will ever go away because frankly, using your voice alone to communicate would suck. It is not realistic in any litany of places where it would either be inappropriate, too loud, or impossible to talk.

In his essay, Graham says, “One of the strangest things you learn if you're a writer is how many people have trouble writing. Doctors know how many people have a mole they're worried about; people who are good at setting up computers know how many people aren't; writers know how many people need help writing.”

I’m more than willing to agree with that. When I was in journalism school, I was horrified that even after four years, seniors who had been coached for 1/5th of their lives on how to write could barely string together a succinct essay. I can’t imagine the quality of the average person’s paper today. To these people, writing well was never important, because if it had been, they’d have learned how to do it. They wrote well enough to pass their classes, and well enough to ease their minds. For them, using AI to write is like using spell check and accepting all changes. There was no craft to begin with. Yet, by the very nature of having to communicate with the AI, and that I can’t imagine a world in which not being able to write without using an AI doesn’t get you teased out of the room, I imagine that even these people will retain a poor to okay level of writing skill.

Graham also talks about how “AI has blown this world open. Almost all pressure to write has dissipated. You can have AI [write] for you, both in school and at work.”

In school, if used unethically like when writing a paper, AI scribing is only going to result in more student suffering. No matter how advanced an AI becomes, it will never be able to write an essay by hand in a blue book with a number 2 pencil. I hate to say it, but kids are spoiled by Chromebooks and iPads. If kids are found to be cheating on their essays or on their online tests, there’s nothing stopping teachers from taking a step back from technology on test days and forcing students to write by hand. AI might be the revitalization handwriting needs.

Graham asks, “Isn't it common for skills to disappear when technology makes them obsolete? There aren't many blacksmiths left, and it doesn't seem to be a problem.” Yet only a paragraph later distinguishes writing from other skills by stating, “writing is thinking. In fact there's a kind of thinking that can only be done by writing. You can't make this point better than Leslie Lamport did: If you're thinking without writing, you only think you're thinking.”

People are still taught how to write by hand, and even cursive. The most popular medium for books is still paper, despite e-reader’s many advantages. We don’t operate in a reality where the rational choice is always the one that wins. Instead, emotions often rule our days, and writing is one skill unlike any other--inexplicably tied to our thoughts and feelings. I don’t see a world in which we ever let that skill go.

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braxton 3 Feb 2025, 4:15 pm

Another change to consider is the style and capabilities that have, and will continue to decline with the influx of AI. There's less self reliance for growth of newer writers who can easily turn to AI to have multiple versions of the works edited and rewritten. Why foster personal growth and knowledge when the option of ease and faster results is available with AI? I anticipate we see writing styles and capabilities decline with the increased use of AI writing tools.